You know how many of us can actually do no contact the right way? Just about no one. No, that only keeps us overthinking, second-guessing, waiting, spending a ton of money on everything promised under the sun to get over him while we WAIT for some kind of miracle to happen to bring him back. The fastest way to get over a guy isn’t by going no contact. It’s the opposite of what every single email in your inbox says to do.Īfter coaching thousands of women of all ages from all over the world over the past 10 years and seeing firsthand what works and what doesn’t, I stand by what I say. It’s the exact opposite of what your girlfriends and everyone else tells you to do. I have become very much a recluse and avoid seeing people because I'm either too unwell or feel like it's a waste of time because I will be rejected sooner or later (because I'm not good company - I really understand that) and it's just too painful to do it anymore so I just stay on my own. I feel like I keep getting backed into corners and my health is in decline.
I have recently found out I'm likely on the spectrum which explains a few things but I'm really struggling with my family dynamics and feel a bit like I'm too messed up to even be friends with anyone let alone be in a relationship (which I've pretty much given up on). Jane, she began, I wanted to see if I might have one (or any) email consults left with you or if not can I please buy one? 🙂 How many times had I whispered exactly the same thing? How many women do I talk to who ask me the same thing? I read it through twice and caught my breath. I get a ton of emails but sometimes there are ones that cut right through to my heart. I must be the issue because it can't be everyone else.
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